Text: Matias Lahti
Translation: Sirkka-Liisa Leinonen
Two of our children experienced devastating loss on successive days: their phones broke down. I saw this as my lucky break. I went and collected all the other phones, too, and declared that a no-phone period would start in our home right now. A 30-minute humanitarian corridor would be allowed every evening, as purposely cutting all streaks would be akin to a violation of human rights.
The initial impacts of the experiment were disastrous. There was motoric restlessness, banging doors, teary eyes, stammering speech, apathy and meltdowns. But humans are capable of adaptation, and we gradually got on with our life – if not exactly as fluently as previously, at least we were scraping along. The amount of sleep naturally increased significantly. What is the sense of staying awake if you can’t even use your phone?
Like me, many adults probably admit that they find themselves holding their phones embarrassingly often. As one researcher pointed out, our lives are leaking into the Internet. We seem to be lacking a tailboard that would keep our whims in check. There are chinks and cracks in our minds that allow us to escape outside ourselves and the real life hundreds of times a day. We deem ourselves smart and aware, but unfortunately, software algorithms are even smarter.
A few decades ago, a project called the North Karelia Project was carried out in Finland. Its goal was to improve people’s lifestyle choices and health and to prevent premature deaths. Butter and cream had previously been luxury products, and when they became more freely available, they were consumed with reckless abandon. The human body, however, is not meant to process huge amounts of fat. The project aimed to increase people’s awareness of healthy lifestyle choices, and the results were remarkable.
Not too long ago, electronic devices were so expensive that they were not accessible to all people, least of all to children. Moreover, many people worked such long hours and had so many things to do at home that they did not have thetime to endlessly seek readily available pleasures. The situation is similar to the butter and cream of the old times: the rising standard of living has brought along so many devices and channels with so much information that the human organism cannot take it in. The stream of bits fills our mental channels and blocks them just like fat used to block people’s coronary arteries.
Phones are like lungs through which the world breathes. I believe that the increase of mental health problems among children is related to this phenomenon. Would this be a good time for a new project and a serious effort to make our lifestyle more moderate? We should not idolize health – not even mental health – but suffering due to detrimental lifestyle choices is both sad and unnecessary.
Our children have already got new phones, and our no-phone project has gradually died down. Our daily life continues in the way I assume it does in most families, with arguments about suitable screen time. I have not yet been able to answer the question about the profound significance of excessive phone use. What niche does it fit, what vacuum does it fill, what needs does it serve? That question certainly deserves thought.
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